Should you chase happiness?

Side one

Build happiness deliberately

Happiness can be cultivated through absorbing work, interests and relationships.

Side two

Chasing happiness directly backfires. It arrives as a by-product of purpose, acceptance and presence.

Common ground

Both agree happiness comes from engagement and connection rather than pleasure or possessions.

How to reconcile them

Don't chase the feeling; build the conditions. Seek meaningful challenges, deep relationships and presence, and happiness tends to follow.

When each side is right

Pursue flow when you need more engagement in your days. Pursue meaning when you're comfortable but empty, or facing suffering you can't avoid.

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